no but heres the thing
everytime i talk to someone i’m constantly listening for phrases and behaviors that will tell me they’re queerphobic
i’m on my guard all the time, even with my family and friends, because it’s the only way i know to keep myself safe
so when queer people talk about how fucking ridiculous heterophobia is it’s because you’re literally comparing fearing for your safety 24/7 to getting your fee fees hurt on the internet
Anonymous asked: my boyfriend calls me fat all the time
call him single
Just a little note for anyone who went to my main blog and ended up here - my wordpress blog is having hosting issues, which is why my domain is redirecting here. This is just temporary until my main blog is back up again. Sorry for the inconvenience!
I’ve temporarily disabled the redirect from my original wordpress to my domain. My newest posts aren’t on my original wordpress, but for anyone who wanted to see or share an older post, you should be able to find it on www.brasandbodyimage.wordpress.com for now.
If you were looking for my ‘putting your bra on properly’ (scoop and swoop) post, the original post is temporarily available here: http://brasandbodyimage.wordpress.com/2012/09/05/putting-your-bra-on-properly/
Site’s back up.
If there’s one thing I hate more than anything, it’s when people tell us to stop critiquing problematic aspects of kids’ media because it’s “just kid’s stuff omg!!11”
where do you THINK WE LEARN BIGOTRY FROM
If you honestly think the racist, sexist, etc. bullshit from our media growing up didn’t teach us to be racist/sexist/etc., then boy do I have news for you!
I want to see the beast in the beauty.
the half smile, half snarl. the unapologetic anger. I would like to see the man forgive the monster. to see her, blood and all, and love her anyway."